Who's cooking?

Yup, it's me! I am a housewife and i cook everyday excluding days when i feel too wasted like last sunday when i just got home from a long travel to kl!

Being a housewife is one of my weird dreams! Wait.....it's not an ordinary housewife, but a superexcellent housewife, more alike my mother if possible. Right now, it is still too far to reach but at least i am trying.

My mother had been and still is my ultimate role model. What are things that she can't do? None!

She is a marvellous cook, she's a natural artist, she is a trusted teacher, she's a pleasant friends, she's a superwonderful mum, she's the best wife anyone can ask for, she is a caring daughter, she is a humble servant of Allah and she is everything I can imagine a perfect mother can be..huhu, i wish i can be her in so many ways.

Being extraordinary is not easy though. Plus, by being a women mean being too caring, and that on it's own is very demanding.

I am at the moment reading this very popular book entitled: Men from Mars, Women from Venus. It's indeed a life changing experience! I can't deny that it somehow has enlightened me.. and that's just 1/6 of the total content.

Anyway, it mentions about female-being, bornt a giver. She lives to gives others and sacrifice her own happiness (sometimes) to see others happy.

So, it's too demanding actually for women to be extraordinary and it's also dangerous for her relationship. As mentioned in that book, men are a natural self-ish (my own interpetation). They lake the awareness about other ppl other than their selves.

That's why, when a woman gives too much, and a man just fails to recognise the effort, it'll just turn the woman off.

However, coming to this point, as a muslim we learn the value of pahala and hereafter. Yes, in this world, we shall be so depressed and frustrated, but in hereafter, more regards awaits. That's only if we know and believe.

My resolution now is moderation! being an ordinary housewife and a good servant shall do the trick inshaAllah!

Regards,
RA